In a small bowl, mix soy sauce, red pepper paste, sherry and honey together. Set aside.
Before you start cooking the meat mixture, it is important to have everything chopped, measured and assembled.
In a large non-stick skillet, heat vegetable oil over medium-high heat. Add garlic, ginger and green onions, stirring continuously for 20-30 seconds.
Add ground chicken and break it up into small pieces with a spoon or spatula. Saute until fully cooked through, approximately 4-5 minutes. Pour off any remaining juices/oil.
Stir in coleslaw mix and add stir-fry sauce. Stir to combine everything and cook until vegetables are tender (and reduced).
Stir in sesame oil and taste. Add salt, if needed.
To serve, place a big scoop of meat mixture on lettuce leaf and sprinkle with toasted sesame seeds, green onion slices or crushed peanuts.